Do you ever feel like The Law of Attraction is just a bunch of – dare we say – BS?
If it ever seems like everything you want, you get less of, and everything you don’t care about quickly manifests, you’re not alone. In fact, it means that the Law of Attraction (which should really be called the “law of opposites”) is working perfectly for you!
What is the Law Of Opposites?
We’ve all heard the stories about the couple who want to start a family and can’t. After years of trying they stop, they let go and enjoy how truly great their lives are. Then WHAM… A couple of months later they’re pregnant.
Why is this?
Possibly because their internal dialog shifted from “we need children to be happy,” “family life is not worth living without children,” and “no children would make me so unhappy,” to “I love children, but I also love what we have now.”
The Law of Attraction still worked, but was attracting the vibration of “no children” instead of “children.” This is the Law of Opposites (or Law of Polarity) at its best.
Why do we attract the opposite of what we seemingly desire?
The Universe responds to the emotional intent behind your desires. In other words, if your emotions are negative every time you think of what you want, why would the Universe give it to you?
The Universe provides you with what you love, or rather, the opposite of what is “negative” inside you.
For example, think about the person who is pursuing a corporate career. They fight hard for every promotion, make significant sacrifices, and do everything they can to get to the next level.
At some point, they release the idea, realizing it’s not worth all the energy. They let go and take in just how beautiful things are already in their life.
All of a sudden, they start getting more promotions, quicker and more quickly than they have ever had before.
It’s the same as above. The Universe wasn’t supporting promotions and more work, as long as work was creating emotions of negativity and lack. But once the relationship to work became positive and full of gratitude, the Universe was glad to help.
What happens when you let go, is you shift your focus from “what’s not right in your life” to “what’s awesome in your life.” You still feel some things would be nice to have, but your key focus is on “what’s awesome in your life.”
How to Focus On the positive when things are bad
So how do you focus on the good in your life when your heart has just been broken? Or when you have nowhere to live, a mountain of debt or you’ve been trying for years to start a family with no success?
Here’s the secret that makes letting go really easy and what turns the Law of Opposites into the Law of Attraction:
An absolute belief and complete trust that the Universe will deliver.
It’s like breathing, you don’t have to think about it, you don’t have to worry about it, you trust it will happen, and it does happen.
It’s precisely the same with consciously manifesting anything: don’t worry about it. You don’t even have to think about it–you just need to trust that it will happen and it does happen.
Getting that trust and belief in the Universe to deliver, begins with yourself; you are part of the Universe, and the Universe is part of you.
The ‘trick’ is in believing in yourself and trusting in the Universe to deliver. Because doubting either of these things will stop you dead in your tracks from consciously manifesting whatever you desire.
2 Powerful Steps To Go From “Knowing” To “Doing It”
Knowing what to do and actually doing it are two very different things.
Knowing that you need to have this absolute belief in yourself, and, therefore, in the Universe to invoke a vibrational alignment is one thing. Feeling that is another whole different story.
You need to implement this concept into your reality if you’re going to make some real change and shift the Law of Polarity.
Step 1: Get Support
A significant first step is to make use of one of your greatest resources: your close friends.
Call one of your close friends and ask them if they would like to have a mutual “what’s awesome in your life” session. Write down all the things that are awesome in your friend’s life, and they do the same for you.
When you meet, tell your friend all the things you wrote down and why you think they are fantastic. Then your friend does the same for you.
Remember: no judgment, don’t offer any helpful suggestions or ideas for improvements; this is just about only what’s awesome and why.
You’ll be amazed at all the beautiful things that you already have and take for granted. Some things which you see as negatives, when viewed through someone else’s eyes may be positives.
Don’t forget – these awesome things are in your life because you attracted them. Not because of good luck, or any other external influence you can think of. It’s all you.
Welcome those feelings with open arms, don’t reject them; they are a gift, and it’s insulting not to accept such a beautiful gift.
You’ll also be cementing an even greater relationship with your close friend. That’s an excellent first step to changing what you believe about yourself.
Step 2: Bypass Your Conscious Mind
Another great step is to consider all the latest advances in mind technology these days, which are designed to turn your dreams into realities and results rapidly.
Right now, it’s never been easier. It all begins by changing how you feel about yourself, and you can significantly speed up that process by taking advantage of the latest tools and techniques available to you.
In my personal and professional experience, the easiest of mind-expanding methods (especially when you’re starting), would have to be Subliminal Messaging.
Subliminal messages are powerful affirmation directed at your subconscious mind and can be in video, picture, or audio form. You can create subliminal messages, use them on your own without any learning curve, and it only takes a few minutes of each day.
The affirmations behind subliminal messages by-pass your conscious mind and work directly with your unconscious (where all of your beliefs are stored.) This makes them incredibly effective in making rapid, positive change in the areas you most desire.
Putting the Law of Opposites to Work
Remember: real, conscious manifesting begins with your beliefs about yourself. That’s the place to start.
When you have faith in yourself, then there is a congruency between the universal energy and your energy, a vibrational alignment. And it’s this alignment that works to fulfill all your desires.