We often blame outside influences for upsets or negative occurrences in our lives. However, our reality is actually shaped and crafted directly from our own beliefs.
So if there’s anything in your life that you’re not happy about, it might be time to examine some of your beliefs.
One common belief, in particular, is that we’re only as worthwhile as others agree to see us. This burdens us with a feeling that ‘winning the good opinion of others’ is somehow our responsibility.
To see through the false belief is to be released from the weight of useless false responsibilities.
Dare to learn everything you can about your own false beliefs. Then watch how the weight of false responsibilities falls off of you.
False Responsibility: You feel as if you must remain in control of everyone and everything at all times.
True Responsibility: Treat everything that happens to you as an opportunity to see through and transcend the unconscious burden of any false beliefs.
False Responsibility: You’re convinced that you must do whatever it takes to win the approval of everyone you meet.
True Responsibility: Be real. Learn what it means to be in possession of yourself, starting with reclaiming your life.
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False Responsibility: You must always compromise yourself to ensure the contentment of everyone else.
True Responsibility: Steer clear of those who expect you to do for them what they won’t do for themselves.
False Responsibility: You must continuously smooth over rocky situations. It’s your job to ensure that no one rocks anyone’s boat enough to tip it over.
True Responsibility: See all negative states as the unconscious, dark emotions that they are, and refuse to justify them in yourself, or anyone else.
False Responsibility: Unless you worry about and suffer over your past, your tomorrows are not going to turn outright.
True Responsibility: You can be a new person right now. Let go of anything that wants to revisit and relive the past.
True Responsibility: See that agreeing to suffer from your own mental and emotional states makes as much sense as blaming the French fry that just burned your mouth.
Let me encourage you to sit down and make your own list of false beliefs. Likewise, note the legion of false responsibilities that come with them.
Remember that your one true responsibility in life–the one action that will always see to your success in life–is always to be as awake and receptive to the present moment as you can be.
If we refuse to see what life is trying to show us about ourselves, then we can’t learn. And if we don’t learn the truth of ourselves, then true self-knowledge becomes impossible.
Without higher self-knowledge, there is no way to rise above ourselves; to reach that innermost path, that alone leads to the fulfillment of our highest possibilities.
The real, unseen cause of our fear is the false belief that life can throw something at us that’s greater than our ability to change it.
But this is not true.
Within each of us–no matter what our culture, tradition, or religious background–lives a fearless immortal self, a transcendent nature that doesn’t fear unforeseen changes.