While most people think of tantra merely as a method for firing up your sex-life, tantric sex is really about creating a deep physical and spiritual connection with your partner AND yourself. Therefore, you can expect to get your world rocked (in the best way) on multiple fronts.
In fact, just one deep tantra experience is enough for harmonizing your life with divine purpose. Hence don’t be surprised with the occurrence of miraculous events, which may become the turning points of your life.
To begin with, you need to clean yourself up to become free from stress, anger, fear, jealousy, anxiety or any other negative emotions. You can’t carry the dirt if you are entering the worship.
This stage should be performed individually.
There are a few techniques for doing this (you can pick which one you feel most comfortable doing):
It’s important to remember that tantric sex is propelled by masculine and feminine energy dynamics, and not by desires. One can let go of desires, just by observing and being with them rather than resisting desires or flowing with them.
Here are some popular techniques to help you let go of your desires:
At the end of this stage, lovers will feel the energy flowing through their palms and fingers.
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As the energy begins to flow through your fingers, you can now play with each other and listen to your bodies.
While touching each other intimately, you’ll notice that certain body parts are pulsating with energy, while others carry energy blocks and hence feel dull or even painful.
At the end of this stage, the female’s breasts will feel the ecstatic pulsations with energy flowing through her nipples. Similar pulsation will be felt at the bottom of the male’s lingam (genitals). This is an utterly ecstatic state, where you become throbbing, pulsating energies.
Now the stage is set for the unification of masculine and feminine energies. As you begin intercourse, feel the rising kundalini energy in the form of throb moving up the spine.
Similarly, the penetration of feminine energy is felt through the connection of the female’s breast at the male chest and it awakens the heart chakra.
Resist the temptation to move much, thrust only slightly. Remember that tantric sex is not breaking the bed. Enjoy the bliss of energy rotating in loops, throughout the body. Lovers can experience long full-body orgasms during this state.
Orgasm will now expand beyond bodies and the ecstatic experiences of cosmic consciousness will dawn over you. Remember, the stage of relaxation is absolutely necessary for you to access cosmic intelligence.
As you come out of tantra samadhi, its bliss will pervade all over you for long hours or even for days.
Don’t be shocked if you observe that you are responding to routine situations with much awareness. Or if the frustrations of life have given the way to love and compassion.