Last month, we discussed negative energetic cords – the transfer of energy between two people who once shared an intense relationship – and why it’s important to cut these draining cords in order to move on.

However what if you feel like you’ve connected with a lover from a past life? How can we find out more about this relationship and know whether we should rekindle it in this lifetime?

Have you ever met someone and instantly felt a connection which goes deep to your core? You’ve never met them before but there’s a mutual recognition and attraction that is pulling your souls and bodies together – but how on earth do you know this mysterious person?

Could it be love at first sight, or have you just met your soulmate or a lover from a previous life? The instant recognition and familiarity suggests that this isn’t your first encounter, as the gravitational pull goes deeper than love or lust at first sight. But how can you find out more?

Unexplainable Connections

There are a number of unexplainable clues which may hint towards you and your partner being together in a previous life.

Besides that initial instant recognition, physically you know each others bodies like you know your own. When you make love, even for the first time, the connection your bodies feel goes beyond passion – there’s a rekindling of a much deeper connection, and in some instances, your soul.

You may also share an affinity to a particular era in time or the same dreams. Is there a reason why you both feel an affiliation with Africa, although neither of you have ever been? This may seem coincidental, or like fate is playing its part in your splendid romance again, although the same details you both recall of your connection to this place are unexplainable.

Another clue is if you and your partner share the same dream. If you experience this, before you begin comparing them –  write down the details as this may reveal whether you were together in a past life, and the dynamics of your relationship.

If We Meet Again – Should We Reconnect?

When we meet past lovers in our present life this isn’t to say we should have a relationship with that person again. You may have shared a destructive or volatile relationship in your past life, therefore rekindling may lead you both down the same troublesome path.

It’s important to understand that while there’s an undeniable pull between you – you may not be soulmates. You partly complete each other’s souls, however the destructive element you share means there’ll always be an unhealthy level of conflict. It’s sometimes difficult to accept that the person you’re pulled to like a magnet isn’t for you – as why else would there be such a strong force pulling you together?

However, there’s many factors which make a relationship work and make your soul happy. Chemistry is just one part of that so it’s important to look at having a healthy relationship where you feel emotionally secure, respected and loved.

Getting A Glimpse Into Our Past Life

To gain a greater insight to your past-life relationships, you should seek professional spiritual advice through a clairvoyant or a psychic for a past-life reading or regression.

Through a past-life reading, a psychic will be to see the relationships you had and provide more insight regarding the dynamics of the relationship, or whether you should rekindle it if you feel you’ve met that person again.

If you and your partner feel connected from a previous life – it is good to get a reading to understand more about that relationship, as there may be issues you’re carrying through to this life. For example, if one of you abandoned the other, it’s possible you may be carrying insecurities and issues around abandonment with you in your current relationship.

Another way to gain a greater understanding of your past-life relationships, is through past-life regression. Past-life regression therapy is the use of hypnosis or meditation to relive your memories from your past life. It can also be useful for finding the main cause of any emotional problems you’re experiencing in your current life, or in your relationship – although this technique is more controversial.

While some therapists believe in their ability to use hypnosis to induce memories from your past life, equally there is a fair amount of skepticism due to charlatans with little experience using this type of therapy. However, when seeking any spiritual advice, you should always search for a recommendation or follow your own intuition when choosing someone.

Therefore, if you feel you have a strong connection with your lover which cannot be explained, or perhaps you’ve just met someone who feels incredibly familiar to you, it may be that you were together in a previous life. Opening the door to this possibility can be an incredibly revealing and awakening experience.

We’ll be exploring past-life regression therapy in more detail in the coming weeks to learn more about the insight it can provide so keep tuned for more!

If you feel you have connected with a lover from your past, please tell us below how you know you’ve met them before. We’d be interested to learn whether this is intuition-based, or whether you’ve received spiritual guidance.