Here’s what I know for sure: finding true love is possible for anyone at any age if you’re willing to prepare yourself, on all levels, to become a magnet for love.
This wonderful universe of ours is set up to deliver what we draw to ourselves, consistent with our personal belief system. If you don’t believe you will ever find the one, then, guess what? You get to be right …you probably won’t.
If, however, you learn to believe that the one is not only out there but is also looking for you, then true love can be yours.
Believing that your soul mate is out there is a critical step to prepare yourself for manifestation. The universe always mirrors our beliefs about ourselves and the world back to us. If we believe the world is a loving and friendly place, then most of the time that will be our experience. But if we believe the world is a stressful and fearful place, then that becomes our reality. So believing and knowing that your soul mate is out there is the most important part of the formula.
What if I told you that it’s not your job to know how your soul mate is going to appear? What if I told you that your job is only to be ready, willing and open to love? Think about it this way: you really don’t know where air comes from but you do believe that it’s always there for you, right?
The same is true for love. It’s there for you. It’s always been there for you. You just need to remember the love that you are – and once you do, the universe will deliver to you the perfect soul mate.
Here is what worked for me and can work for you. When I was in my early forties I decided to manifest my soulmate using everything I had ever learned about manifestation, psychology, spirituality and the Law of Attraction.
My intentions became crystal clear while I simultaneously cleared out the clutter in my house and in my heart. I learned and invented techniques, rituals, visualizations and prayers that helped me prepare my body, mind, spirit and home for an amazing relationship. And they worked. I met my husband, Brian, who has exceeded all of my desires and expectations. He was and is everything I ever wished for.
Here’s what I know for sure: The happily married, soulmate couples I know didn’t just “get lucky.” Most of them invested time and energy in their own personal growth. They worked on themselves via therapy, coaches, workshops, books and seminars. They studied themselves and they studied “love.”
They became experts in their own issues and evolved as individuals. And then, once they met and married their soulmate, they didn’t stop. They attended couples workshops, and read books on how to make a relationship really sing.
I am telling you this because if you truly want big love, you need to make the investment of time, energy and yes – sometimes even money.
Here’s a simple analogy: For those of you who love to cook, chances are you have more than one cookbook in your kitchen. You are always looking for “new” recipes. And, you don’t expect to always get a recipe right on the first try. You know that sometimes practice makes perfect. Love is the same way.
I believe it is important that you first and foremost make a commitment to yourself to become the best you possible – while you also manifest the best possible soulmate for yourself.
So yes – big love is possible for anyone of any age, if you are willing to become a magnet for love. Continue to live each day in the knowingness that you are in a loving, committed relationship as you savor the waiting for your beloved to arrive.
If you would like to find your big love like how Arielle and her husband Brian found each other, and you know you could definitely gain from some guidance by the author herself, Arielle is holding a free online seminar: “3 Keys to Manifesting True Love” this Tuesday, August 7th 2012! Discover the secret to finding your soulmate with this rare opportunity.